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Saturday, May 9, 2015
ADEYEMO'S BLOG: THE GRUDGES IN MY THROAT
ADEYEMO'S BLOG: THE GRUDGES IN MY THROAT: THE GRUDGES IN MY THROAT It does not worth the grudges It deserve more of the grumbles Ours of it just li...
DISTINCT MINDS:
A B C’s are what I love to say,they form
the word I use everyday living in a society. Society consist of me and you as an
organized group of people associated for some specific purpose which involved
transmission of rules, norms, culture, the totality of social relationships in
moving or making life better living for all.
How do we carry out our social relationships to make a society? It is
being said that no communication no society and that tells us that
communication plays the major role in the making up of a society. Communication
is the process of you sending something to another person, who understood
clearly what you meant with no difficulties. In other words, communication is a
process of imparting, exchanging of information, ideas, thought or feelings in
an acceptable manner. It involves the process of receiving stimuli by the
sender, having a complete thought or ideas to send package in message, a
channel to send the message through and the receiver’s response after receiving
the message to serve as feedback.
We human being love to share, as there is
good in sharing our ideas, thoughts, feelings to somebody who cares and whom we
think cares to free our mind, educate, entertain or influence their lives in
one way or the other. Man cannot not communicate they have to do with the right
message being sent to the right people at the right time making the
communication process efficient as intended.
What make up our message? What makes a
message the right message? What makes a message attract a good feedback we
yearn for?
All this is simple! communication process
can be verbal or non-verbal means, what constitute verbal means are our
ALPHABET joined together to form words we add meaning to as it implies
‘’meaning resides in man and not in words’’ the meaning we attached to words
has to do with our past experience about that word which is mostly by
socialization, either through peer groups, the media, family, school, religious
houses and others.
Meaning could be in negative or positive
form for exam, the word ‘’FAILURE’’
It seems she is a FAILURE?
Sandra said looking tentatively at the females playing tennis game on her
phone.
God forbid! Lara sitting beside Sandra said almost immediately, crossing
her thumb and middle finger on her head with the hope of cleansing Failure in
her life.
I
will report what you to our class teacher; she said afterward walking to the
teacher’s table to report.
Come here Sandra; the teacher commanded ’’why did you say that to your
friend, fellow human like you’’ was it because you had a small little argument
I have settled with you; the teacher demanded as Sandra gazed down speechless.
Who could define what just happened between
them?
FAILURE
is just a 7letters word we are being thought in school and now it is putting
Sandra to the verge of the teacher’s anger. The word FAILURE to her is helpful
because it has allowed her to express her thought about the tennis team
insufficient performance during the play and in other way an enemy because the
experience of the people around her then about the word FAILURE is total
negativity just like in non-verbal communication where signs through the use of
hands, known as tactile, body language and all that are used for example, what
do you think of the reaction of a physically challenged in the ears would be if
he sees another person with a leaf in the mouth?
It is exactly what you think and that is
why you must know that what you do favourably welcome in your society might
attract hostility in another society.
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MEMORIES
Memories
Comes back in a flash
Bringing back the world of what I was
Breaking the heart,
A broad smile it welcomes
Gone are those
Refreshing d heart make d heart light
It out wit the present
Do you still linger on it?
`it makes d root of your iroko tree
Up
is what it does,growing taller
Looking down is what it does when cut,for
it must grow taller
It is in the luck of pyramid
***********ADAMIC FALL***********************
My name is GBOYE, a tall black dude as my friends, the shakers that
rocks do say. I am an only child to my parent you can call me the pride of
motherhood. NO! Do not try it, I have lost it recently. My mother! The rock
behind my brain, she was my teacher when my school teacher abandoned me in
class for my no clue attitude, she built my confidence, my clue and the only
one that trust and has ever cherished me, don’t worry too much, it is no more.
I caused it upon myself and now I wished it to be called adolescent stage but
far away I had gone from it.
It was some
years ago,so bright I thought that I lived relishing the moment of that 15seconds
in my hostel. That 15seconds put me in this position that I am right in, it
never cease to come in to my mind.
Ithappened in my final year when I tried to loosen up from what my friends
tagged DORMANT life. I read and pray so much that that mistake I thought I can
never fall in to but yes, it happened.
I do not
count it at first, though I have been complaining so much, ever since they have
been coming to our hostel with their girlfriends caring not for me, their third
parties, they drink and mate in variant style.
Lola, Becky and Sandra
come so often during leisure hour that if woken up from sleep I could identify
them with their make ups plastered except their at the door friend, she never
seems like what her friends do come for In my hostel but she never fail to
follow them.
One day, I
was in the hostel alone doing revision, my friends had gone to their usual spot
to read for the next day exam, I did not follow them because I have read the
book so many times with proper assimilation already unlike them, who read a day
to exams and then I heard a knock on the door, I thought they were the one
back, so I went swiftly to opened the door with only my boxers on and there I
met a shocker, a natural beauty that made noise, tall, fair skin, with a glint
of money just like a fashion model.
I stood for so long staring, my state of appearance doesnot even
come to mind, have beginning to imagine things when she talked, it was so tiny
and soft, it was just as if I am in
trances, I could not help myself to say anything.
Hi Daniel
Hi angel; I said questioning myself, I can’t just belief what came out
of my mouth, how can I help you? I quickly asked
Am here to see
you Daniel, I need you to explain mathematics to me; she said searching my face
for approval, it seemed she has gone to meet some people who haven’t been able
to helpand then using the opportunity came to mind.
How do you
know my name; I asked
I have known you for
so long not to know your name; she said flashing her beautiful white gapped
teeth.
How would it taste if her teeth was locked on mine; I thought as she
continued to tell me how she do come to my hostel with her friends Lola,
Sandra, Becky.
So you are the police behind their back; I
said jokingly, I let her in and we started discussing after I have pulled on my
polo
Those moments something continued to spring up in between my legs,
it gave me the sweet sensation I can ever thought of which she noticed.our eyes
were locked for some minutes after which we get back to business and so she
bade her bye with me wishing she could stay longer but no! She has an exam this
evening I thought.
That evening, I began to have second thought about my friend’s
babes, may be they are not olosho, they might be serious about education than
how they behave or was Remi pretending? I asked myself. It can‘t be, I forgo
the thought. My dream wife, Remi is not like that. The thought of wooing her
and the thought of her being olosho beclouded my head throughout the night.
The next day in the afternoon, I was packing to get ready for home when
they come to greet my friends but my love was not among.
Sandra, what about Remi ; I asked
They all share glances before she answered as if something was wrong
so, I calledRemi to get her to confirm and then the revelation that she had 2
carry over courses tomorrow
at the same time which was putting her in distress, she was so poor in
statistic which am very good in and so an idea struck are.
Please Daniel, can you help me to write the exam; she said pleadingly,
it was as if it was the only thing I needed to hear, I did not know the spell
she casted on me that made me say yes in approval before the network break on
her thanks.
She came to my place 9 o’clock that evening to give me her exam pass, I
could not reject, she gave me her word of love that soothe my nerve till she
left, I could not tell my friends because she has made me promised that I will
not tell anyone under the excuse of betrayal from them.
I
nudged myself on to her hall to meet the invigilators and the students being
checked in one after the other and then it came my turn, the invigilator
collected the exam pass to be checked while I secretly prayed.
What is your name; he asked cross checking
my face with the passport, which we had earlier changed to my own so I did as
if I did not hear him speak
What is your name; he scowled this time, I
am Remi; I answered as calm as possible, he handed it over to me back and we
fully sit to write the exam.
2minutes in to the exam, one of my
lecturers came in, it was as if he was targeting me because he pointed to me
straight
Am writing my carry over sir; I said trying
to becalm as possible,
He took my exam pass lying on the table.
What is your surname? He ask sending me off balance, I did not plan for
this; I thought, playing with a no nonsense man like this in my final year was
not in my plan at all. Oh! God, help me;
I prayed when his voice broke in to my head like thunder.
My friend, fill this form; he said, no
amount of my plea made him stopped, so I honourably filled the form.
Meet me at the school exam malpractice
council; He said
What will I tell my mother who paid my
school fees? what will I tell myself; I
thought
WATCH OUT FOR WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO DANIEL,
SANDRA, REMI, BECKY and OTHERS IN THE NEXT UPDATE.
UR COMMENT IS HIGHLY NEEDED.
Saturday, February 28, 2015
COGITO ERGO SUM: JUST THINKING
Dont you think you are growing up these days?not
physically,i mean
intellectually,
we human are sui generis philosophers say
i looked at my left hand side and my right hand side captivated me.
What did i see u ask?
It was nothing but a lady i saw yesterday and only but today,i was
told tht she was gone.............gone! They said simply
to him we come and to him we shall return:he told me and this subject
came up so suddenly,i never thought it could drove out my long caged
emotion.
This feeling enveloped me so i decided to share so we can talk deeply
with no sentments as beloved friends.
How important is the topic i hear u say?
It is onething about the covenant we made some years ago.
They said you and i made it but i searched through my mind i couldnt
remember,only but one thing is sure.what made the young lady whom i
talked to yesternight lifeless this morning to perform the same
routine?
We will all go in our own time,you say
what is the exact time i ask you?
The said it was among the covenant we made,the time we know we say
punctuality is the soul of business.
How are we preparing for the time we do not know?
Life is endless,it has different sides and that is why we have that
opportunity.
The opportunity we have is that life doesnot have a generally
acceptable definiTion.
Doubt me!
Raise ur brow!
Balance it dearly i love
intellectually,
we human are sui generis philosophers say
i looked at my left hand side and my right hand side captivated me.
What did i see u ask?
It was nothing but a lady i saw yesterday and only but today,i was
told tht she was gone.............gone! They said simply
to him we come and to him we shall return:he told me and this subject
came up so suddenly,i never thought it could drove out my long caged
emotion.
This feeling enveloped me so i decided to share so we can talk deeply
with no sentments as beloved friends.
How important is the topic i hear u say?
It is onething about the covenant we made some years ago.
They said you and i made it but i searched through my mind i couldnt
remember,only but one thing is sure.what made the young lady whom i
talked to yesternight lifeless this morning to perform the same
routine?
We will all go in our own time,you say
what is the exact time i ask you?
The said it was among the covenant we made,the time we know we say
punctuality is the soul of business.
How are we preparing for the time we do not know?
Life is endless,it has different sides and that is why we have that
opportunity.
The opportunity we have is that life doesnot have a generally
acceptable definiTion.
Doubt me!
Raise ur brow!
Balance it dearly i love
An ode to the equal right home
the equal right home,i once visited
picky packy all around
the wall speak it so loud for the ears
equal right we have:is one cliche i developed
i stood padlocked all the days
and yet those two got no choice
they need no electricity to laugh their rib out
that is their own Fuji house of commotion in reality:that drive those two out.
Those two off springs pay dearly for the right.
The head,i am,it changeth not
Fashioneth the head,equal right we beget
Started the uproar in my damn skull
and then to the two leal
it came from the horizon,to the priest.
To liberty it spilled from the cup
the men of the white books came up
truth is in two ways: they ranted
section 39 subsection1 of the 1999 CON:i stand
the CON?you are right
i could see the swimming pool in the two leal tents
section 45 of the CON: the two leal pronounced
the got good heads on their shoulder
and then we climb the ladder
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